My wife of two years came clean that she cheated on me for the last yea and half it torn me part the good thing is their no children involved the problem is that I believe she is still cheating on with this other guy what I can do to reassure my self that it inst my fault and move on The common answer is: because you're in love.

The scientific answer is: dopamine plus adrenaline plus oxytocin. Didn’t give him the truth he deserved to know. Can't stop thinking about when my girlfriend cheated.

It has gotten to the point where I can’t enjoy myself when we have sex. I don't care about the new guy at all (he's gone now) but now, I cannot stop thinking about my ex. I still totally find her attractive and beautiful, and I think we have a good relationship.

I am 38 years old, married with a child.

I can't stop crying. It … 1 I'm happy with my girlfriend but I can't stop thinking about my cheating ex Credit: Getty - Contributor

I cheated on my boyfriend, and now I can't stop thinking about the guy I cheated with This is a throw away, please don't call me a piece of shit I was already crushed when my boyfriend woke me up and 5 am crying in my face shaking me "why?

I don’t feel like I want to punish him, it’s not that… but I can’t get away from it. I went back that morning, and broke up with my boyfriend. I don't know how you can stop thinking about her affair.

I know it’s tough to deal with those recurring images of your husband and his lover. But you can replace those negative images with more positive ones and also make a deliberate effort to not dwell on them.

I have tried to think of what he did in terms of human weakness and have reflected on the fact that none of us is perfect.

You really can’t stop the images from coming. All I can think about is the dumb mistake I made going behind his back and how I lost my boyfriend over some curiousity and an impulsive move.

Tl; dr— my boyfriend broke up with me after seeing text messages between me and an ex and now I can’t stop thinking about it. 4,344 4.3K.

why? My 2 cents. All I can think about is the dumb mistake I made going behind his back and how I lost my boyfriend over some curiousity and an impulsive move. I think it’s also helped that the physical stuff has not gone very far, but she says it’s the lying and deceit that hurt her more. If you cheated in the past, are currently cheating, or are even thinking it, chances are you'll believe your partner is cheating, too.

He said he didn't want to give up so easily. I cried all day.

I also find it telling that you’re still thinking about your ex-girlfriend even though she cheated on you, and you’re dating someone else. And yet I can't stop having lewd thoughts about every other woman I see, whether in real life or on a screen or whatever. My gut instinct tells me that you aren’t over her like you claim you are. But for others, cheating can become more of a pattern, and they can feel as though they can’t stop cheating, even if they want to. I miss him.